If you read, I invite you to comment if you have thoughts. I am ill-versed in these things. There is no need for a true name or true email if you wish to remain anonymous.
I wish to know what you have learned if you have been left. Did you reconcile? Did you regret more leaving things unsaid, or saying too much?
As I have said, these things are foreign to me. In a multiple system it is a little more complex as I cannot even be certain that any message will reach those for whom it is intended. Once I trusted this one, but just now I do not, not when there was no crisis between the most of us and yet this separation was imposed. And yet, Li and San signed it.
Still, I wonder what is the course of things for others. I am a prideful woman, but also passionate. I am capable to err on either side.